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My Family Secret: A Brother by another Mother & Another Barkhamsted Lighthouse Descendant & family found~

Photo L2R
Top: My Father Rex Allen & Kenny Gilbert Jr.
Bottom: My Grandfather (Dad’s Father) Alvin Allen
and last my Brother Rex Allen Jr.
I BELIEVE PHOTO SHOWS IT ALL~
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When I was 3 years old (1970) I had a cousin born named Kenny Gilbert Jr.
He was suppose to be the son of my Mother’s Brother Kenny (Sr.) & wife Nancy Gilbert…  Kenny Jr. and I grew up around each other and stayed close thru the years – I consider him one of my dearest friends and closest relative and now I am proud to call him Brother!!!!
ABT a month ago we had a DNA test done (familytreedna.com) for Kenny Gilbert Jr.  REASON being…. THRU the years there was always talk of Kenny Jr. actually being my Father Rex Allen (Sr.) Son…..  So with this I am bringing our “family secret forward”
I want to note: this is not to hurt any of our families… but was to finally prove one way or other and without a doubt we are 1/2 siblings~
Here goes: My father (Rex Allen) had an affair with my Mother’s-Brother’s (Kenny Gilbert Sr.) Wife Nancy many years ago…. Kenny Jr. & I have known it was a “possibility” and Kenny Jr. & I have ALWAYS been close regardless…
Kenny Jr. recently visited me here in Louisiana (been a few yrs since we’ve seen each other) once he stepped out of his truck I was shocked to see my father in his face – mainly the eyes~ The possibility became reality to me AT THAT MOMENT… I had no doubt he is my father’s son & MY BROTHER… all we had to do was prove it~ My Mother & her brother found out abt the affair and forgave them both for their infidelity…. my Father Rex Allen thou never admitted to being the biological father to Kenny… was always whispered abt and a secret in our family…. until today~ With DNA we have proven that Kenny Gilbert Jr. is my 1/2 brother by my Father Rex Allen and Nancy Gilbert.
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1st on list to match Kenny in the Family finder is My Uncle Russ Allen
Him & Kenny share 1,955 Centimorgans
and 2nd on list is ME – Kenny & I share 1,940 Centimorgans!
He is also match to my cousin Tanna Chesser (All ALLEN SIDE’S)
Kenny should have NO MATCHES to the Allen’s if not an Allen!
(He should be Maternal side only)
States I am his 1/2 sibling~
Kenny 1

Comparison Data for: Coni Marie Dubois, Half Siblings

(To Kenneth Gilbert Jr.)

ChromosomeStart LocationEnd LocationcentiMorgans (cM)# of Matching SNPs
1720175426000574.0914209
187327144907381534.74897
11860467781894315951.87600
12203329102284184526.512000
282908487175058374.6517877
2966688071006900101.87700
336243006339685073.3516600
31202405601220568251.6500
31297239711339168463.54900
313474822217835219242.939388
423843172152999288111.6324842
5911393450993951.529099
51289089241322422292.4600
68086378170761395170.0245559
72575835103624569110.6125120
710554303015366526256.210630
81549842986473552.4212186
81435088081462642181.99641
9365873154384650.1911511
911147440812663419221.444389
10852889135327873176.0138980
1134237487355153242.83600
1136877321400489451.79600
1148014889562737171.3600
1193315872949058201.88500
12253873312245332213631286
13273042517311153947.4712200
1385871398898186272.36700
145347677210100856063.2313356
151833168799751548117.1221566
1617786411743053932.785417
1739086035032669364.111453
17645953977863970234.184385
18303433099158.991092
18541480776116152104.3219873
1921191224092475.95695
19162008746315639666.3410207
20400210656238290750.327699
2198494044689773858.9910222
22163724374577280250.558618