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📚✨ Our Story Is on Amazon — And We Need YOUR Help!

Amazon Debut! Our Story Is on Amazon — The True Story of the Barkhamsted Light House Village book cover with Mini-Coni

Our book is LIVE on Amazon, and this mama’s heart is bursting! 💛

The True Story of the Barkhamsted Light House Village — the story of my ancestors, the Barkhamsted Lighthouse Village people — is now a real, hold-it-in-your-hands book. After 30+ years of researching my family’s story, it’s out there in the world for little ones to discover.

📖 The details:

  • Paperback: $19.99 (43 pages, ages 2–10)
  • Kindle: $9.99
  • Published September 27, 2026

🛒 Get your copy:

⭐ LOVED IT? LEAVE A REVIEW!

Here’s the thing, family — reviews are EVERYTHING on Amazon. Every single review helps Amazon show our book to more families, more teachers, more little readers who need this story. If you bought the book (or the Kindle!), please take two minutes and leave a review. It truly makes all the difference. 🙏

🎨 BONUS — Free coloring books! Every children’s book celebration comes with BOTH free coloring books: the 34-page Light House Village coloring book AND the 11-page Book Nook for Kids coloring book.

Grab them free in the Crayon Corner! 🖍️

🌿 What’s next? This is just the beginning! I’m building Heirloomie — my very own genealogy app — so families everywhere can trace and treasure their own stories. And right here at Ever Widening Circle, the research never stops. New ancestors, new stories, new discoveries every week.

📣 PLEASE SHARE!

Here’s the honest truth, family — I’m self-publishing this book. That means there’s no big publisher behind me, no marketing team, no advertising budget. It’s just me, my research, and this circle of wonderful people.

The ONLY way this book reaches new readers is through YOU. If this story touched your heart, please share it:

  • Share this post with a friend, a teacher, a grandparent
  • Post the Amazon link in your favorite parenting or homeschool group
  • Tell your librarian about it!

Every share puts our ancestors’ story in front of someone new. You are my publishing team, and I love you for it. 💛

Thank you for being part of this circle. It keeps widening because of YOU. 💛

— Coni

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Come Step Inside — The Blog, the Book Nook, and Everything We’re Building

Well, come on in and look around — things have changed around here, and I’m so proud I could burst.

If you’ve visited my blog lately, you’ve seen it: a whole new look. Warm cream pages, beautiful serif lettering, terracotta links, bronze headings — and my Grove banner across the top, the luminous family tree with the glowing ancestor medallions hanging from its branches. That tree is my heart. It holds my memorials everywhere — here, in my Heirloomie app, in the Book Nook. Every shared link now opens with pretty art instead of a blank box. I even earned a “CSS Sorcerer” badge from WordPress for the custom styling. You’re a developer now, it said. Basically. 😄

The Book Nook has a brand-new front door.

You know my Book Nook — my cozy little corner of the internet. It has a new entrance now: a rustic gypsy caravan tucked in the woods, candles everywhere, little strings of lights, and a wooden sign that says “Click to enter.” Step through the doorway and you’re inside, with ten doors to wander through:

🔥 The Welcome Fire — pull up a chair by the fire; the guest book, library-card desk, and mailbox live here.

🎨 The Craft Corner — for the makers.

✍️ The Author’s Alcove — my writing room, with my children’s book on the shelf.

🕯️ Memorial Chapel — the memorial room, where every Ancestor of the Day gets their candle lit.

🗺️ Wander & Wonder — my journey: travels, digs, ceremonies, reunions, and the folks I’ve met along the way.

📚 The Lending Library — borrow a book the old-fashioned way, with your own library card.

🗝️ The Keepsake Corner — treasures and memories, with a keepsake-tag maker you can personalize and download.

🐣 The Hatching Room — where new ideas hatch (including peeks at Heirloomie).

📝 The Blog Room — every post, right inside the Nook.

🛋️ The Couch Corner — kick back and relax, the cozy screening room.

How it works is simple: click a door, and it opens its own little world. Light a candle for someone you love. Sign the guest book. Get yourself a library card — the grandkids all have theirs. Just wander.

My Facebook work page got a refresh too — An Ever Widening Circle – Genealogy Research by Coni Dubois — with a new cover and my Media Kit linked up. And if you want to find me anywhere, here are all my doors:

What we’re building: my children’s book, The True Story of the Barkhamsted Light House Village, is live on Amazon in paperback and Kindle. My Ancestor of the Day series just wrapped its daily run with Day 7 — Hannah Sands — and starting Sunday it becomes Ancestor of the Week, every Sunday afternoon. My Heirloomie genealogy app is on its way to Google Play. My poetry book From My Heart to Yours is a free download. And my research books are all finding their home on the shelves.

And you’ll notice five little faces popping up everywhere — my mini-me mascots. There’s Mini-Coni (that’s me, always in the middle, in a new outfit every time), Ancestria the kindly robot-grandmother, Penny the duck, Mini Jaybird with Desi the green parrot, and Sassy. They run the Book Nook, they’ll live in Heirloomie, and they show up on the blog and socials. If you spot the little faded brooch seal on every picture — that’s my mark. If the image ever wanders off, at least my mark rides along.

Come wander through. Light a candle. Stay a while. This place was built for kin — and that includes you.

© 2026 Ever Widening Circle Research by Coni Dubois LLC. All rights reserved.

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Ancestor of the Day #7: Hannah Sands — The Medicine Didn’t Die on the Mountain

Transcription of Reuben Barbour's 1849 Elmira Gazette obituary, which calls him 'Dr. Barbour' — corroborating the family history that his occupation was an 'Indian Doctor'Day 1 was Molly. Yesterday was James. Today I close the first week with their daughter — and she gets the finale for a reason. Hannah Sands married a man family history remembers as an “Indian Doctor,” and her line is the largest branch on the whole tree. The medicine didn’t die on the mountain. It traveled.

Hannah Sands was born around 1753 or 1754 in the Lighthouse Village itself — the daughter of Chief James Chagum and Mary “Molly” Barber, the founding couple. (If you missed them: Day 1 was Molly and Day 6 was James.) She grew up in a village where healing was daily work. Lewis Sprague Mills wrote it right into his poem about the village — the Legend:

“Found they roots and herbs for healing,
Ferns to cure the poison ivy,
Soft witch hazel steeped for bruises.
Many medicines they fashioned
For the people of the township,
Selling each for cash or barter.”

That’s the world Hannah was raised in. A medicine-making village.

On October 31, 1784, in Barkhamsted, she married Reuben Barber — married by Justice of the Peace Thomas Wilder, by her own sworn statement in her widow’s pension deposition. (The pledge is the pledge: in a separate affidavit for bounty land, she said “on or about” October 30, 1778. Same justice, different year. 1784 matches what I’ve always carried, and it’s the date I stand by until a record says otherwise.)

Reuben was a soldier first. His 1832 pension application traces him through the Revolution — enlisted 1776, served at Fredericksburgh, Ridgebury, and Fishkill — and his obituary fills in the rest: the storming of Stony Point under General Wayne, Oriskany, Fort Stanwix. He served again in the War of 1812. He was placed on the pension roll October 25, 1833, at 78.

But here’s the part that stopped me cold. A family history of Reuben Barber and Hannah Chaugham — submitted by Jan Rieke, published by Joyce M. Tice on the Chemung County NYGenWeb pages — gives his occupation in plain words: “His occupation was an Indian Doctor.”

An Indian Doctor. A practitioner of the old herbal medicine way — the same roots-and-herbs tradition Hannah grew up with in the village. And the obituary backs up the title, if not the practice: the Elmira Gazette, April 1849 — headed “ANOTHER HERO GONE!” — calls him “Dr. Barbour.” Twice. “Probably no man in his sphere was more extensively known, than was Dr. Barbour.”

Now the honest part, because the pledge doesn’t bend for a good story. “Indian Doctor” comes to us through family history — not yet through a pension file or a census occupation column. The obituary proves he was called Doctor; it doesn’t prove he practiced. And I have found no record — none — naming Hannah herself as a healer. What I can say, honestly, is this: she was raised in a medicine-making village, she married the man remembered as the Indian Doctor, and the healing tradition lived on in her household. The medicine traveled with her.

It traveled far. After the war the couple lived in Ridgebury and New Hartford, Connecticut, then Greenfield, New York, then Pennsylvania — and in 1793, back in Barkhamsted, Reuben and Hannah sold their land on Ragged Mountain to George Shepherd. Land Hannah had inherited after her father James’s death. Her name, on a deed, selling mountain land. That’s ink, not legend.

They settled finally in Catlin, Chemung County, New York. Reuben died there April 16, 1849 — 99 years old by his obituary’s count. Hannah lived on another ten years, dying about July 29, 1859, at roughly 105. The 1850 census catches her: “Hannah Barber, 96, born Connecticut,” living next door to her son James. A 96-year-old village daughter, still next to her boy.

Their children: Hannah; Thomas, born about 1788; James B. — “Long Jim” Barber, a War of 1812 veteran himself; and Patience, who married Charles Stephens. (One more pledge note: the cemetery notes list three children; the compiler adds Thomas. I give you both, the way I found them.)

And the branch she started? It’s the biggest one. In my extraction of the descendants of James and Molly — 2,825 pages — Hannah’s line counts 1,360 souls. More than all seven of her siblings combined. Fitting, isn’t it? The daughter who carried the medicine out of the village planted the largest branch on the tree.

One more thing, and it’s the reason this week ends here. If you’ve read my children’s book — The True Story of the Barkhamsted Light House Village (paperback · Kindle) — you’ve already met her. She’s one of the eight children in the story, the aunts and uncles arriving home. The book ends with family. So does this week.

So here’s your Day 7 ancestor: a village daughter, a soldier’s wife, the mother of the largest branch — who carried the old medicine off the mountain and into the future. No one wrote down that she healed. But the village she came from did, the husband she chose did, and 1,360 descendants are the proof that something in that household knew how to keep people alive.

This closes the daily run — seven days, seven ancestors. Starting Sunday, the series becomes Ancestor of the Week, every Sunday afternoon. Same pledge. Same honesty. Just once a week, so I can keep proving and proving again.

Who do you want to see next? Tell me below.

— Coni

Sources: Descendants of Reuben Barber AND Hannah Chaugham (Jan Rieke / Joyce M. Tice, Chemung County NYGenWeb — occupation note, 1849 Elmira Gazette obituary, pension details, marriage affidavits, children’s list) · The Legend of Barkhamsted Light House (Lewis Sprague Mills, Project Gutenberg #36935 — village herbal-medicine passage) · Day 1: Mary “Molly” Barber Chagum · Day 4: Theodore James Barber (their great-grandson) · Day 6: Chief James Chagum (her father)

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